I didn't really get Sassy when I was in high school. Back then I simply thought that some people responded to a different set of stimulae than others. After college I'm perfectly okay going up to someone who's clearly part of a jet-set in-crowd and making a fool out of myself and then thinking to myself, hmm, sorry you probably don't like me but I think it's terrific that I got up the nerve, in an intellectual do you know who Searle is?, to try and relate to you in a supercilious but politically neutral manner.
-joanyin